responsibility

i just got call from my sister.*sigh*
why eh some men nowadays do not know how to take responsibilities?
its your RESPONSIBILITY as a husband,father and brother ok.
why it is so hard to THINK before you act or make decisions?

i really don't understand you lah.
it give me headache when i heard about it.
i know i'm the youngest but still i got right to say it.
i don't mind if you want to call me 'kurang ajar' or what-so-ever lah.
all i want you to do right now,THINK about your wife,your CHILDS,your coming baby in few more weeks and also OUR SIBLINGS..!!
you're a family for so many years already so please do play your role in it..!

p/s:- when i'm typing in english it so meaning that i'm so angry/depressed/dissappointed.got it guy??

EDITED: i know nobody perfect and everyone made mistakes from time to time but be responsible for your mistakes and make an effort to made it up. don't blame others if they don't want to back home anymore after this not even for eid...*how i wish i could say this right to your face now*